A guide to help women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection: PART SEVEN- Foreplay

 

“For a husband to feel loved, he needs to make love. For a wife to make love she needs to feel loved. That is why the foreplay, the romance, is so much more important to a woman.” Patty Macee

 Whether you are aware of it or not you need foreplay to really get your motor running. I am yet to meet a woman who truly feels loved and cherished in a situation where all she experiences is lets-get-down-to-the-main-business-sex, no negotiation and no discussion just wham bam and thank you ma’am. After a while you start to feel like a piece of meat

A woman needs to be caressed like a delicate flower that will fall apart if handled incorrectly. We should be unwrapped lovingly and with the utmost care.

Here are some foreplay techniques you could try:

·       Kissing (http://junesecrets.blogspot.co.uk/2015/05/a-guide-to-help-women-play-their-role.html).

·         The Infamous, old school but ever effective 69. For those of us that don't know what the 69 is, it is basically you and your husband performing oral sex on each other simultaneously. To begin you straddle your husband with your bottom on his chest and your back to him, so that he has easy access to you, and you to him. As you bend forward to take his penis into your mouth your bottom will rise exposing you to him, for him to take you into his mouth. And they rest, as they say, is history.

·         The velvet tongue. For this you need one of his ties, doesn’t matter which, a tray with a mug of hot tea and a glass of ice or ice cream in it. After kissing him as described earlier to get both your motors running you, blindfold him and ask him to lay down and put his hands by his side or above his head, whichever is more comfortable for him. Then you go to the kitchen and pick up the tray. Play with his manhood as you see fit but gently. You could squeeze it or take it in your mouth. Tease him and then take a sip of the tea and hold it in your mouth for a few seconds so that the warmth touches everywhere in your mouth. You can hold a little bit in your mouth and then take his manhood in your mouth slowly and watch his reaction. This is called the velvet tongue. Then as he is getting into it pop some ice in your mouth and take him in your mouth again for a few seconds. This will cool him down. Then repeat the process again and again for as long as you both want.

·         Butterfly kisses. This is literally gentle kisses all over each other’s bodies fondling as you go along. Paying attention to his erotic spots i.e. his nipples, the nape of his neck and his inner thighs.

·         Sexting. This is sending each other kinky text messages throughout the day via text or email. The messages could contain details of what you would like him to do to you or what you would like to do to him. Or it could contain a reminder of your most exciting sexual experience and a suggestion for a repeat performance. Be creative.

·         Telephone. Call him at work or when he is amongst his friends. Establish that he has a few minutes to talk to you. Then tell him how badly you want him. It’s similar to sexting but this time he is actually hearing you say the words. So use your sexiest voice and feel free to moan and make some sexy sounds. Just be ready because when he walks through the door he’s going to be like a hungry lion.
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