A guide to help women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection: PART EIGHT- Self-confidence: The Ultimate Aphrodisiac

Challange: Get over your body image issues and let go of your inhibitions by doing a striptease-lap-dance.

Tools needed:

A confident wife ready for change, her husband, two comfortable chairs, a ribbon (to tie his hands if you so wish), music (Marvin Gaye’s sexual healing is an example other examples are songs by Luther Vandross, Barry white or one of the other legends), an invitation in the morning to let him know you have something planned for him and what time you need him (something with the words ‘Dear Sir, your humble wife respectfully requests your presence in the bedroom at ……….), appropriate clothing, jewellery, perfume.

The rules

 He is not allowed to touch you unless you tell him to, he can turn his head to get a better view but his back must be against the chair at all times, he can express his delight verbally, whistling is acceptable.

Setting the scene

If you can do it somewhere outside the bedroom that will make it more exciting but the bedroom will suffice if this is not possible. You need good lighting so that he can have a good view of the woman he loves. Or you may prefer to do it with little lighting to give you some silhouette effect until you get more comfortable. Place one of the chairs, for him, in a position that allows you to move all around him easily. He should be in boxer shorts; this allows you easy access to his more sexual parts. Put the second chair nearby, this is for you for later on.

Make sure he is properly attired before you start, when he is seated in his chair give him the rules. Then give him a kiss and tell him the show will start shortly and you go and get changed where he can’t see you. When you return you can tie his hands to the chair if you think he’ll find the no touching rule difficult to follow. Then turn on the music and it’s show time.

The ensemble

You have to be creative here, choose colours that suit the occasion red, black or white are good colours. Matching lace undies is a good idea. A front hook bra is even better but not a must. A mini skirt if you have a small frame and a long skirt with buttons or a zipper if you have a large frame.  A teddy is also appropriate. Tights are great because you can take them off slowly exposing your lower body as you do so. A necklace, a bracelet and an anklet will catch the light and will make you look even sexier at the end when you are naked and wearing nothing else but them. High-heeled shoes will give added appeal if you can manage it. Finally don’t forget to use some perfume, preferably one he got for you.

The performance

You might feel silly, very self-conscious and might even start to giggle a bit but you must put this out of your mind because he is not thinking you look silly, he’s thinking that’s my girl and she is smoking hot.

To begin circle the chair slowly giving him a good look at you, as you pass behind him lean over and tell him what you are about to do. Then go in front of him and kiss him deeply as described earlier. Then turn your back to him and straddle one of his legs and lowering yourself onto it briefly and rubbing your crotch against his leg and then stand up. Keep moving in front of him to the rhythm of the song dancing slowly and seductively taking off your clothes one strap at a time as you do so. Make sure he gets a view of you from all sides. Be creative.

Use the second chair, put one leg on it as you take off your tights for instance. Sit on it facing him and slowly part your legs, stand behind it and spread your legs. Sit on the chair facing him and with one foot on each knee and slowly spread your legs so he gets a good view and get really aroused. (you can do this before and after you take your panties off). Touch him occasionally intimately with your hands and let parts of your body rub up against him. You can also ask him what he wants to see you do.

Quenching his fire

How you finish is up to you. He will be extremely aroused and so might not last very long. You can ride him on the chair by sitting astride him or you can bend over the chair and let him take you from behind or you can  make love on the floor or move to the bed, whichever you think will please him the most.

He will have a smile plastered on his face for the next few days and will probably want a repeat performance.
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