Secret rendezvous with pleasure. A guide to help women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection: FINAL CHAPTER!!!!

‘All women should be their husband’s mistress as well as their wife.’ Patty Macee

Challenge; Remind your husband that you are also his lover not just wife, mother of his children, nurse, friend and confidant.

Tools needed

One hotel room, a sexually confident wife, a husband who loves her, non-alcoholic wine (so you don’t wake up with a heavy head and can still drive home in the morning), sexy lingerie, short sexy dressing belted gown or kimono that matches the lingerie, babysitter for the children if you’ve got children and an overnight bag.

Setting the scene

Pack an overnight bag for you and your husband. Then rent a hotel room for a night. Friday night is usually ideal because most people are free Saturday morning. Send your husband an invitation like you did for the striptease-lap dance. Before he knocks on the door put on your sexy lingerie and have some non-alcoholic wine in a glass ready for him.

The performance

When he arrives as you open the door greet him looking divine and with a glass of wine in your hand for him, kiss him intimately as I described in one of my previous posts. (http://junesecrets.blogspot.co.uk/2015/05/a-guide-to-help-women-play-their-role.html).  Invite him to sit on the bed and start a conversation about how his day went. Maintain eye contact as you talk taking off his shoes and massaging his feet slowly and gently as you do so. Keep an eye on his glass and ask if he wants a refill when he starts to run low. Undo his tie and shirt button and then go behind him and rub his shoulders massaging them gently. Keep the conversation going and keep your dressing gown/kimono on. When you feel he is relaxed start kissing him all over, starting from his neck and working your way down. When you get his motor running come round and stand in front of him and slowly remove the dressing gown/kimono revealing your sexy ensemble and then ask him what he would like you to do next, he’s calling all the shots tonight. If he’s anything like my husband he might say he would like to eat so prepare for this.

The bedroom is probably the only place that your husband doesn’t mind you being in the driving seat. You might think he enjoys wham bam thank you ma’am sex because he climaxes but he would much rather prefer a willing participant who desires him and melts at his touch, not one who does it out of obligation or just to get him of her back.

I hope following these exercises have given you a glimpse of how exciting your sex life can be and how much of an impact your sexual confidence has on your marriage and your personality. This is the last in the series of “A guide to helping women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection”. Remember your husband wants you to be a lamb in the kitchen but a tiger in the bedroom. Embrace your sexuality and see your marriage transform.
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