A guide to help women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection: PART TEN- Spice Things Up!!!!

The missionary position is great but it can get very boring. It is usually the position we resort to when we just cannot be bothered, which is too often ladies. We just rollover no intimacy, no enthusiasm no passion.

Challenge: Initiate a different sexual position

Woman on top positions you can try

·         Horse-riding style: With your husband lying flat on his back on the floor or the bed you straddle him facing him and supporting you weight on your knees. You might want to have small cushions handy in case the skin on your knees are sensitive. The benefits of this position are that he is able to stare at your breasts in motion, can touch your backside, breasts and vagina. And for you, you get to set the pace according to what you find pleasurable. This position also makes it easier for him to hit your G spot.

·         Froggie style: With this, you should position yourself as you did with the horse- riding style but this time instead of kneeling over him, squat so that you balance your weight on your feet and your buttocks is on his thighs. The benefits of this is the same as with the horse-riding with the added bonus of him seeing  himself going back and forth into you. Also this allows for deep penetration so be prepared.

·         Bump n grind: For this your husband can be lying flat on his back or sitting in a comfortable chair or at the edge of your bed. You sit astride him like in the horse –riding or froggie style but with your back to him. The added benefit of this is that he gets an amazing view of your amazing backside. 

Missionary position with a twist

·         Come-to-mama style: Lie flat on your back or slightly raised with a pillow put your legs apart then raise them and bend at the knees drawing them towards you as you do so. As he enters you he will go quite deep so be prepared. This time it’s you who will get a great view of him going back and forth.

·         Hanging-on-the-edge: Sit at the edge of the bed and then lie back so that your bottom is at the edge of the bed. Then your husband can kneel or stand (according to the height of your bed) at the foot of the bed between your legs and make love to you in this position. You can wrap your legs around his waist or put them on his shoulders. You could also put your legs on the wall or on a stool for support. 

 Freestyle

·         Doggie style: This involves vaginal penetration from behind. This is one of the few styles that can stimulate your G-spot. To begin you can lie on your front or go on all fours on the bed or the floor or you can stand and place your hands on a table, wall or bathroom sink for support. Then your husband enters you from behind.

·         Spooning: In this style the husband lies on his side and the wife lies next to him on her side as well but with her back to him and as close to him as she can get. In this position your husband can caress your breasts and clitoris whilst you just relax and enjoy the ride.

·         Scissor style: With this the wife lies flat on her back and the husband lies on his side next to her on either side. She then drapes the leg closest to him over his hips so that her bottom is pressed against his pelvic area allowing deep vaginal penetration.