Little big bits ladies tend to forget when they've got the man. (A guide to help women play their role in the marriage bed to perfection: PART FIVE)

When you were dating you put your best foot forward. Made every effort to look your best. Remember all the preparations you made for your wedding night, how you shaved your armpits, pruned your pubic hair and were generally at your best. Now that you are married you somehow think he’s not worth the effort anymore, because that is what is implied when you stop making the effort. You need to keep the fire burning and putting your best foot forward so that you make every night your wedding night and also show him that he is worth the effort. 

If you have bad breath your partner is less likely to want to kiss you or come near you and the fact that you just woke up is not an excuse. You should brush your teeth twice daily and use a mouthwash. I find using a mouthwash at night after brushing gets rid of that embarrassing bad smelling early morning breath. Also it is a good idea to have a pack of sugar free gum handy all the time for after meals and snacks. I recommend Wrigley's extra or Orbit gum.

Get a pedicure and a manicure. Dirty toes and fingernails will not float your boat so don’t expect it to float his. You can go to a professional or get a manicure/pedicure set and a foot tub of warm water and go DIY.
There are some men out there that like their women hairy. And if your husband is one of them he is perfectly normal and obliging him will show him that pleasing him is important to you. For the rest of us, if you are thinking of shaving your pubic hair so that it’s completely hairless, you might want to consider that whilst it looks great, as the hair starts to grow back a very itchy rash usually accompanies it. I recommend a really close trim with a pair of small scissors. It will still look great. For the braver ones among us I recommend waxing, you can go Hollywood, which is everything off or Brazilian, which is most off. It leaves the area clean shaven for longer and when the hairs do grow back they will be finer. I must warn you though the first time will hurt, especially if you have you been shaving with a blade or shaving cream. But subsequent waxes will be more comfortable. 
Still on curbing the excess hair. You are not alone if you have a moustache, a light beard or chest hair. This is a very common phenomenon for women and not to be ashamed of but a visible moustache, beard and chest hair are not very lady-like. He doesn’t want to feel like he is with another man when he is kissing or touching you. The main thing is that you manage them. There are several ways you can do this; you can wax the hair off, pick them out with tweezers if there are just a few,, thread them or use an epilator.  I don't advise using shaving blades because the hair will grow back quite coarse, with the other methods the hair grows back finer so even when you haven't had time to get rid of the hair they don't look unsightly. Also for goodness sake SHAVE YOUR PITS AND LEGS, well that is unless you man likes them hairy, then in which case carry on as you were.

Finally please decorate the Christmas tree. Wearing a bit of foundation, mascara or lipstick to enhance your assets is not a sin neither is fixing your hair so it’s nice and stylish. It shows your man you care enough about you and him to look your best all time. Having said that, wearing too much makeup suggests vanity and that you have too much time on your hands. When it comes to makeup I think less is more. I am totally against wearing so much makeup that you look like a different person, I agree with my brother when he says that the devil's handwork. Bottom-line, if you feel you need a lot of makeup then you think your are naturally butt ugly.