Something fishy is going on...

I don't know what else to do. I think I have thrush but I have tried all the thrush products from the vaginal tablet to the oral tablet to the cream but nothing seems to work. I still have smelly discharge and itchiness in my vagina. There is no pain but it stings when I go to wee but I think it's because I have wounded myself scratching, also the discharge has a terrible fishy smell. I am embarrassed to tell my husband so I have been making excuses but he's starting to suspect something is up. I wash myself regularly so I don't understand what is happening. M.O

Dear M.O,

It's is likely that you don't have thrush at all and that's why the medicines you used didn't work. For the symptoms you have described it sounds like you have a condition called bacterial vaginosis (BV). The symptoms are similar to that of thrush except for the fishy smell which is characteristic to BV. It is caused by rise in ph (I.e. a measure of how acidic or alkaline an environment is) which makes the environment in the vagina more alkaline and this creates the perfect environment for the bacteria, that naturally lives in the vagina to grow uncontrollably and cause the symptoms you are experiencing. It has nothing to do with cleanliness it's just many ladies don't realise how sensitive the vagina really is and it might just have been that you wore a new underwear or let some soap get in the vagina. Visit my earlier post for full details and how to get rid of it.

http://junesecrets.blogspot.co.uk/2015/08/common-vagina-problems-explained.html

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Present for future mother-inlaw

What can I get for my soon to be mother inlaw for her 71st birthday. She had a party last year for her 70th and whilst we are kinda alright now things were a bit strained between us for sometime a few years ago as she didn't think I was good enough for her son and tried everything to break us up. So I want a thoughtful but not personal gift that would involve me spending time with her. SB

Hello SB,

I commend you for burying the hatchet and trying to do something thoughtful for your soon to be mother inlaw. Since you said things are still a little awkward between you and 'mum' I guess taking her out for a meal is out of the question. I would suggest a bouquet of flowers. If you live in London then use Interflora. I have used them a few times and they have not disappointed me, yet anyway. You tell them what you want written in the card and they will deliver it with the flowers and with balloons if you like.  If you're in Lagos then try Pretty Fabulous flowers (+234 8186424648) or Gethsemane flowers (+234 8033042760). I haven’t tried any of these.

Also you give her a spa day where she can be pampered all by herself. If you are in Lagos check out Biyou spa, Justice GBA Coker Estate,off CIPM Avenue,Alausa. I also haven't tried it myself so I am in no way endorsing it I just know of their existence.  If you are in London then visit www.wahanda.com for the latest deals on spa days.

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Small Penis.

I would like to know how to make my penis larger.  I'm not 100 % happy with what I have got because I feel it is small. I would like it a little larger than it is. A.M 

Hello A.M and thank you for your question. You would be surprised to know that a lot of men ask this very question so you are not alone. Many men worry that there penis is too small when their penis is actually a normal size. As the saying goes it's not about the size it's about how you use it. If you’re overweight, losing weight will make your penis look larger. This is because the fat around your stomach may hide some of the base of your penis. Exercising more will not only help you get in shape, but it can improve your self-esteem and help your sex life.

However if you are convinced that your penis is on the small side and you are not overweight and exercise regularly and want to increase the size then you can try the following options.

Penis enlarger pump

1. A vacuum pump. This involves using a vacuum pump to encourage more blood into the penis thereby making is become more engorged than it normally would be when erect hence making it appear larger. This is a temporary fix as the blood will eventually drain out of the penis. There are quite a few on the market ranging from £17 to £70. But they all work with the same principle. We like the Ann summers penis enlarger pump for £17.  They are not painful to use just a little uncomfortable. If you are in London then purchase online or in store and if in Nigeria purchase via www.nuerasshoppingmall.com for delivery to you in Africa, they have a personal shopping service that you can use if you need help.

2. Other non surgical techniques include pills, supplements and creams for which there is very little evidence of efficacy. 

3. A surgical procedure to increase the length. This involves cutting the suspensory ligament. This ligament joins the penis to the pelvic area and supports the penis in an upright position when it’s erect. When the ligament is cut, the penis hangs lower, which can make it look longer. However, cutting the ligament may also cause the penis to point downwards when erect. A study in 2006 found that this procedure led to an average increase of 1.3cm in penis length. However, only 35% of men who had the operation were happy with the results. So seriously consider before you go down this route. The surgery is expensive and not without risks.

4.Surgical procedure to increase the girth (thickness) of the penis. This can involve injecting fat taken from elsewhere in the body into the penis. There’s a risk that the penis may look uneven or lumpy, and there may be scarring. The injected fat can also disappear over time and the penis revert to its original girth. Very little evidence has been published on the long-term effectiveness and risks of this technique. So in effect if you choose this option you will be flying blind into the unknown.

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